Let’s be honest with one another. Mother’s Day is in a few days, and you most likely haven’t put a lot of thought into what you’re going to do for the Mom in your life, let alone gone out and purchased something. Maybe you didn’t even remember it was Mother’s Day!
Don’t get me wrong. I’m not judging, I’m really not! I’ve done the same thing (unless you’re reading this Mom…and in that case, your gift took weeks of planning!). I know the mother-child relationship can be complex, taking on as many forms as there are flavours in a bag of Jelly Bellys. When we look back, though, most of us can appreciate her role in helping us become the people we are today.
And maybe it’s because we know (or hope!) she’ll love us anyway, even if we don’t get her something. Maybe it’s because nothing ever seems quite right, so we hem and haw and never actually decide what to do. Maybe it’s because we know she doesn’t really need anything else. Or maybe it’s that she has everything she wants. But those reasons don’t quite seem to justify not doing anything
for the woman who gave us the best she could.
There's a solution to your Mother's Day gift woes
Luckily, this year, I have a plan. I’m going to honour the Moms in my life by providing for a mother who’s in need.
As a mother myself, I can tell you that I don’t need bubble bath, a box of chocolates or any more candles. But I would love to know that another mother’s life has been changed, even just a little, because of me. And that’s why I’m asking you to consider honouring a woman in your
life this Mother’s Day, by helping a mother in need.
When I learn about mothers living in some of the world’s toughest places, my heart aches for them. I understand what it’s like to feel empty handed, when you want to give your children the very best.
Although life is much easier here in Canada, I haven’t always felt as though I’ve been able to give my kids everything they deserve. I try my best, and I love them to the moon and back. But "Mom Guilt" always seems to be lingering in my thoughts, leaving me wondering if I should have done something different, or could have done more.
The author with her son Micah and daughter Maddy.
Local Mom, Global Gift
Globally speaking, I recognize that my own Mom Guilt comes from a very privileged place. My son turned five last year, and there wasn’t a single day of his life when I was worried he wouldn’t live to reach that milestone. My children attend a school filled with high quality resources. There is food in our fridge and three walk-in clinics in my neighbourhood where they can receive care at any time.
There are, however, many mothers around the world who are unable to say these things. In many places, even pregnancy and delivery is a dangerous process. I can only imagine what it would feel like knowing your child is in danger before they even enter the world.
But we can help change that. Because of a donation made to the World Vision Gift catalogue
, Bimli, a mom of two in India, was able to start a small business. She is now able to afford to send her children to school, and has even been able to save and re-invest to grow her business!
“I am now able to provide for my children’s education through this and with my savings, I was able to buy more material to grow the business.”
You may be a Mom looking to give a hint to your family about what to do this year for Mother’s Day. Or perhaps, you want to honour a mother who has helped care for you. Either way, I’ve developed a practical and easy list. I call it the “Top 5 Things You Can Do For Mother’s Day That Don’t Include Candles or Bubble Bath” list. OK, the title needs some work, but the list itself is really good:
- Donate to your local food bank. Food bank use is on the rise, with many recipients being children. Give a mother the chance to provide healthy nutritious food to her children.
- Through the World Vision Gift Catalogue, provide vulnerable mothers from around the world with baby kits that include things like diapers, hygiene products and more.
- Partner with the Canadian Government to provide expectant and new moms overseas with pre and post-natal care.
- Donate supplies to a school in a ‘high needs’ area of your city. Many mothers will feel relieved to know that their children have the tools needed to participate in school.
- Give to a charity, or support a cause that’s important to your Mom.
So with Mother's Day quickly approaching why not get started on how you will honour the mothers in your life. You can’t go wrong with any of the above, and I guarantee you they are all way more meaningful than candles or bubble bath. Happy Mother’s Day!
P.S. Need a Mother's Day card? Our #1000DayJourney website has a beautiful and free downloadable one
. And you'll be helping spread awareness about how important the first 1000 days of a child's life are.